Every coach says they want a great culture. Then the season starts, a couple of players show up late, somebody pouts on the bench, a parent emails about minutes, and the culture you talked about in the preseason meeting is gone by December. Culture is not a slogan on a shirt. It is what your players and staff actually do every day, especially when nobody is making them.
This guide covers how I think about team culture from start to finish: what culture really is, setting standards, attitude and effort, relationships, accountability, captains, traditions, parents, turning around a struggling program, and working with your staff. I have been coaching for 11 years, starting at 18 right out of high school, with stops as a freshman assistant, JV assistant and freshman head coach. Now I am an assistant at a struggling program that needs direction, so this is not theory for me. It is the work I am doing right now. Each section links to a deeper post if you want more.
What Team Culture Actually Is
Culture is the set of habits and expectations your program lives by. It shows up in how players walk into the gym, how they react to a bad call, how they treat the 12th player on the roster, and how they respond when you are down 15 in the third quarter.
I believe culture outlasts talent. Talent graduates. A great class comes and goes. Culture is what stays, and it is what lets an average roster compete with a better one. X’s and O’s matter, and I love the strategy side of the game, but the best play in the world doesn’t work if your players won’t sprint to their spots or trust each other to make the right read.
The other thing about culture is that you have one whether you build it on purpose or not. If you don’t define it, the loudest players in the locker room will define it for you.
Go deeper: Why Culture Outlasts Talent in Basketball, Why Culture Matters More Than X’s and O’s, and How to Build a Team Culture That Wins.
Standards and Non-Negotiables
Standards are the things you expect every single day, no matter who you are. Keep the list short. If you have 25 rules, nobody will remember them and you won’t enforce them all. Pick a handful that matter and hold everybody to them.
Some of mine:
- Shoes on and ready when practice starts. Accountability starts before the first drill.
- Attitude and effort in everything. Drills, film, weight room, the bus ride.
- Be on time. Missing or being late to practice without a valid excuse costs you minutes.
- Help side and getting through screens on defense. Those are basketball standards, but they are culture too, because they are about effort and trusting teammates.
- Respect each other, the staff, the officials and the other team.
The key is consistency. If your best player is late and nothing happens, your standards are gone. Players watch how you treat the star more than anything you say in a meeting.
Go deeper: Establishing Non Negotiables in Your Program, Creating Standards That Players Actually Follow, and Communicating Expectations Clearly.
Attitude, Effort and Body Language
If you have read anything from me, you know attitude and effort is the center of everything. A player can’t control whether his shot falls tonight. He can control how hard he plays and how he carries himself.
Body language tells a player’s story. I have seen plenty of good players go nowhere because they never fixed their body language. Head down after a miss, arms out after a foul call, slow walk back on defense. Teammates notice it, coaches notice it, and the other team definitely notices it.
What I try to do is praise the next possession. When a player misses a shot, I am not getting upset about the miss. I want to see what he does next. Does he sprint back? Does he get a stop? That is what I celebrate. It teaches players that a mistake is not the end of the world, but quitting on the next play is not okay.
Coaches have body language too. If you are slamming clipboards and throwing your arms up, your players will copy you. I learned that the hard way, which I will get to in the accountability section.
Go deeper: Building a Culture of Effort and Toughness and The Importance of Body Language for Coaches.
Relationships Come First
A lot of coaches have the X’s and O’s down but struggle with relationships. That is where I spend a lot of my time, because players have to feel good about their relationship with the coach. They don’t have to like you. They do have to understand what their job is and commit to doing it, and that only happens when there is trust.
Building relationships is not complicated. Talk with your players about things besides basketball. Check in with every player at the start of practice. Have fun with them. Team meals and film breakdowns together do a lot for this, because players get to see you as a person and not just the guy with the whistle.
Relationships also make the hard conversations easier. When you have to tell a player he is losing minutes, or that his body language is hurting the team, he takes it very differently from a coach who has spent time getting to know him than from a coach who only talks to him when something is wrong. Trust is built in the small moments, so by the time the big moments come, it is already there.
Not every player will match your effort. That is just reality. The lazy ones are exactly the players you need to build relationships with, because that is how you teach them what hard work actually means. You won’t reach every one of them, and you can’t please everybody, but you have a much better chance when they know you care about them.
Go deeper: How to Build Trust With Your Players, How to Build Buy In From Day One, and How to Build Team Chemistry Quickly.
Accountability Starts With the Coach
If you want accountable players, you go first. Show up every day. Give your all. Do what you ask your players to do. If you want them in the weight room, get in the weight room with them, in the off-season and on practice days during the season.
When we win, it is on the players. When we lose, it is on me to figure out what to change. I believe that, and I want my players to hear me say it. It takes pressure off them and shows them what owning your job looks like.
I also had to learn this one the hard way. Early in my career I copied a coach who yelled a lot. When I moved up to JV, I realized yelling at players loses games. Being strategic and focused wins them. Another lesson came from Coach Brown, my former varsity head coach. After a game where I spent too much time working the referees instead of coaching my players, he told me he knew we would lose because of my sideline behavior. He shared that his own dad once told him the same thing. He didn’t just criticize me. He gave me solutions, and that stuck with me more than almost anything else in coaching.
That is the kind of critique I welcome now. Other coaches, and even players, can critique me. Good critique comes with a solution. If you build a culture where people can tell the coach the truth, your players will learn to take coaching too.
Go deeper: Teaching Accountability Without Killing Confidence, Teaching Players to Hold Each Other Accountable, and How to Stay Composed on the Sideline.
Captains and Player Leadership
I let the players pick the captains, but not before I explain what the job is. Being a captain is not a reward for being the best player. It is a responsibility. Captains set the tone in drills, hold teammates to the standard, and are the bridge between the locker room and the staff.
Before the vote, I ask anyone who wants to be captain two questions. Why should you be captain? And why would your teammates agree? Those answers tell you a lot. Some players have never thought about it. Others give an answer that shows they already lead.
Remember that leadership isn’t only the loud kid. Some of your best leaders will lead by showing up early, diving on the floor and never complaining. Teach your quiet leaders that their example counts, and teach your vocal leaders that their words don’t mean much if their effort doesn’t match.
Go deeper: Developing Leadership Within Your Team and Teaching Players to Lead Without Being Vocal.
Traditions That Bring the Team Together
Traditions make a team feel like a family. They don’t have to be big or expensive. They just have to happen consistently so players look forward to them.
A couple I like:
- Team dinners about every two weeks, with admin’s OK.
- Pizza after practice, with a shooting contest and an NBA 2K tournament.
- A team break with a double clap at the end of every timeout and huddle.
Traditions are also how you bring new players into the culture. A freshman or a transfer learns more about who you are by sitting at a team dinner than by reading a list of rules.
Go deeper: Team Building Activities for Basketball Teams and How to Bring New Players Into the Culture.
Parents and Boundaries
Parents can strengthen your culture or tear it apart. Most problems come from bad communication, so I start there.
At the preseason parent meeting, I cover boundaries and family. I set up a trusted parent as the “tree,” the person other parents can go to with questions, so I am not answering the same thing 20 times. I set the 24-hour rule at the start of the season. No conversations about a game until 24 hours after it ends. That gives everybody time to cool off.
When I do meet with a parent, we set a time and place, and there is always another adult present. I won’t discuss playing time with parents. I send them to ask their player, because that conversation belongs between me and the athlete. And playing time comes down to one thing: who I can trust on the floor.
I also take one day a week for myself. Coaches burn out when they are available 24/7. Setting that boundary makes me better for my players and my family.
Go deeper: How to Improve Communication With Parents, How to Keep Parents Involved Without Interfering, and Handling Criticism From Fans, Parents, or Players.
Turning Around a Struggling Program
This is where I am right now. A struggling program usually doesn’t have a talent problem first. It has a habits problem. Players are used to losing, used to standards not being enforced, and used to adults coming and going.
Here is where I would start:
- Set the vision early, and keep it simple enough that every player can repeat it.
- Win the small things first. On time, shoes on, sprint to the line, help side. Those wins come before scoreboard wins.
- Close practices. I have run closed practices for most of my career so players stay focused, and every coach has the right to close practice.
- Work with your AD and admin. Find out how they prefer to communicate, keep those lines open, and set expectations both ways.
- Be patient. A program doesn’t flip in one season. The first year is about building habits that the next group inherits.
When I started coaching, I spent my first year stepping back to watch and listen to other coaches. That is still good advice in a new program. Learn what is already there before you try to change all of it.
Go deeper: Turning Struggling Programs Into Competitive Teams, How to Build a Basketball Program From the Ground Up, and Setting the Vision for Your Basketball Program.
Assistants and Staff Culture
Your staff is part of the culture. If coaches are not on the same page, players notice right away and some of them will use it.
As an assistant, my job is to give the head coach advice he can take or leave. I stay in my lane. If he follows my advice and it goes wrong, I own it. But I am not a yes man either. Great assistants question the head coach, respectfully and in the right setting, because that is how the staff gets better.
If you are a head coach, give your assistants real jobs and real input. Ask for their opinion before the season, during timeouts when it makes sense, and after games. The staff that argues in private and stands together in public is the staff that builds a strong culture. And keep learning together. I go to a coaching clinic in Las Vegas regularly, and some of the best ideas I have picked up came from talking with other coaches between sessions.
Go deeper: How to Get Your Coaching Staff on the Same Page Before the Season and The Role of the Assistant Coach: Maximizing Impact.
If you want the practice plans, playbooks and clinic notes I use to build all of this, check out Underdog Hoops University. There is a 14-day free trial. And if you would rather listen while you drive to practice, I talk about culture and coaching all the time on the Underdog Hoops podcast.
Frequently Asked Questions
How long does it take to build a team culture?
Longer than most coaches want. You can set the tone in one preseason, but real culture takes a couple of years because it has to be passed from one group of players to the next. The first year is about habits and standards. The second and third years are when your older players start teaching the younger ones without you saying anything.
What do you do when your best player doesn’t follow the standards?
You hold him to the same standard as everybody else. If he is late without a valid excuse, he loses minutes like anyone would. It is uncomfortable and it might cost you a game, but your team is watching. If the standard doesn’t apply to the star, it doesn’t apply to anybody.
Should players pick the team captains?
I think so, as long as you set it up the right way. Explain what the job really is first, then ask anyone interested why they should be captain and why their teammates would agree. Players usually know who leads in the locker room, and a captain the team picked has more credibility than one the coach handed a title to.
How should coaches handle parents who complain about playing time?
Set the rules before the season starts. At the parent meeting, explain that you won’t discuss playing time with parents and that their player should come talk to you directly. Use a 24-hour rule after games. Playing time comes down to who you can trust on the floor, and players earn that trust in practice. If a meeting does happen, set a time and place and always have another adult in the room.